Time spent well …. could be the energy to look forward to more time together, or a consolation for a good memory. You grow relationships over time. Those that you hold dearly are the ones you grow in. And these are the ones that can be the hardest to dismiss as
“good memories”.

So, its these tricky ones you need to deal with carefully. And when you have to let go, you need to look back to the better memories and get over them, because if left for later, they would give you much pain. Let it be a snap, a resolution you would never break. Let it be over tonight and the morning would be free from any contamination of the past.

Its best to deal with them this way.

I would and might forget and detach myself. But I guess I would want to keep the memories here. I will take the liberty to be as selective as I want to. If this is to stay a memory, it shall be a good one, as I want it to be. These will be the dull, distant lights in my rear-view mirror. As long as I drive, as long as I want to look back, I shall be able to. At my own will. I will be able to look forward, but catch the “northern lights” without looking back.